i wish more people said that being single is normal
and you’re not going to meet and marry someone
and that’s fine
and if marriage happens, it happens. and it’s not the next big ticket to check off in life’s checklist
because not everyone meets someone they want to marry. and that’s normal
you’re not broken or unfulfilled if you are single
girls being kept out of the sciences and pushed into the humanities; the humanities being valued less in our society than the sciences; and the humanities and sciences being looked at as stark opposites that couldn’t possibly be enjoyed for the same reasons are all problems that need to in some degree be tackled together
Its ok to be a victim.
I am really tired of this alpha mentality of “stop being a victim” bullshit we crank out.
It. Is. Absofuckinlutely OKAY TO BE A VICTIM
Especially in a system that not only rewards abusers, but often put those abusers in positions of power
Victims have the right to cope in their own fashion, on their own time.
Real talk, when I came to this conclusion, so many things clicked. Noone wants to be a victim, but if thats what u are, thats what u are. It doesnt have to define you, doesnt mean ur stuck. It means… ur a victim. And its ok to take time to heal.
Its not an excuse, its a fact!